Weekenders

Family Friendly Fun in Santa Ana - Kid AND Parent Approved

Summers have shifted in the Traveling Newlyweds’ household. Five years ago, summers involved cross-country road trips, African safaris, and quick weekenders in Cabo. Fast forward to 2023 and summers are defined by beach days, exploring new parks, and trips to the local mountains. We’ve embraced this new phase with our kids but still have the desire for new adventures. With two kids under three, we stay pretty close to home more often and are always looking for new spots to eat or to get our kids’ wiggles out. We’re excited to share that we’ve been exploring Santa Ana for the past few weeks and have fallen in love. Not only is it close to home (Costa Mesa), but we’ve found experiences that all of us have enjoyed. 

Here’s a quick little rundown of where we’ve been eating and playing in Santa Ana this summer:

EAT

  • Hopper & Burr: This is one of our favorite coffee shops, period. We’ve been coming here for years and are obsessed with the gourmet coffee, the mouth-watering avocado toast, and the always friendly baristas. If you haven’t been to Hopper & Burr, drive over to Santa Ana this weekend and thank us after. 

  • Brunch at Santa Ana Brunch Club: If we had to pick one standout of our past few weeks in Santa Ana, it’s brunch. To be fair, it’s the only place we hadn’t been and we didn’t know what to expect. We arrived right when they opened at 9 AM (because the kids had been up for hours), and immediately were greeted by the kindest employees and Chef Domenico. They made recommendations for breakfast and we didn’t hold back. Bobby had chicken and waffles, Alli ate Avocado & Egg toast, the kids had sourdough pancakes, and we all shared the milk bread donut bites. Chef Domenico told us all about the restaurant and his journey to getting there and we can’t wait to go back!

  • Benchmark: A perfect location for al-fresco, Benchmark boasts a welcoming vibe that feels welcoming for families but is also the perfect date night spot. Their menu is “refined yet approachable” and encourages shared plates to enhance the whole table’s culinary experience. The kids shared chicken tenders while we enjoyed the Benchmark burger and avocado and corn salad. DELISH!

  • 4th Street Market: The thing about the 4th Street Market is that you could actually consider this “play” too. The 4th Street Market is a modern food hall with a variety of food stalls, so everyone can get what they like. There is a variety of cuisine (and libations) that ensures that you’ll be making multiple trips. What’s more, they have a patio area with ping-pong tables and games that our kids were obsessed with. We indulged in the smash burgers at The Golden Eatery and craft cocktails from Recess by Playground. The kids had grilled cheese, juice, and loved dancing on the stage. 

The CUTEST kid’s meals!

There may have been some fighting over the donut bites :)

Benchmark is a hit!

PLAY

A Day at the Santa Ana Zoo: If you’re a Southern California native, your idea of a zoo is probably shaped by the San Diego zoo. Ours was! So while the SD zoo is magical, it feels like a big production to commit to a day at the zoo. But the Santa Ana Zoo offers a different experience. While you can definitely spend a whole day here, you can also see so much in just a couple of hours. It is packed full of animals, activity, and fun, but it’s a much smaller space than the San Diego Zoo. This is a huge advantage when you’re wrangling kids. Our kids are obsessed with the monkeys, butterflies and camels. With over 80 species of animals, we definitely need to go back to see it all! 

Aside from the animals, we rode a ferris wheel, a train, and played on the playground. And a visit to the Santa Ana Zoo is not complete without a trip to Bean Sprouts for lunch. Their award-winning kids menu is honestly the most fun looking food our kids have ever seen. From the “Spaceadilla” (quesadilla shaped like a rocket ship) to the “Flutter Bite” (turkey sandwich shaped like a butterfly), all of their kids entrees are built with creative flair and are super healthy! 

The Discovery Cube: The perfect August-September activity, the Discovery Cube is a wonderful place to beat the SoCal heat. Aside from the air conditioning, the Discovery Cube is an amazing destination focused on inspiring and educating kids through science programs and exhibits. With permanent exhibits and seasonal featured events, there are always fun, new experiences. 

Here are some of our kids’ favorite exhibits:

  • Discovery Market - Grab a shopping cart and have a real life grocery store experience. 

  • Hurricane Simulator - Experience winds over 70 miles an hour. Hold on to your hat! 

  • The Raceway - Build a car, find a track, and race for the best time. 

The two featured events were perfect for our kids. Both are going to be at the Discovery Cube until September 4th:

  • OC Ocean Encounter - Explore the different parts of the ocean in this immersive wonderland. Learn about ocean life, coral reefs, conservation efforts, and so much more. Reese loved that she found a slide!

  • Paw Patrol: Adventure Play - Jude could have stayed here all day. Come alongside your favorite pups and explore the different parts of Adventure Bay. This place is a kids dream! 

Good news for the kids… the Discovery Cube has a Bean Sprouts cafe as well. So you can get your Under the Sea-za pizza here too :) 

Train ride around the zoo was a hit!

Jude loved building cars and racing them!

Reese could have stayed here all day!

From Brunch to the 4th Street Market to the Zoo, we’ve been so thankful to learn what is right in our backyard in Santa Ana. We’re eager to explore more of the places we’ve been, but also know that there’s so much more to discover. We’ll be sure to report back as we uncover more family friendly adventures in Santa Ana

FIVE REASONS YOU SHOULD VACATION IN OXNARD 

We just came back from a four-day staycation in Oxnard, CA that absolutely blew us away. “Oxnard, really? Why Oxnard? What’s there?” 

We’re so glad you asked.

Conveniently located just five minutes South of Ventura, Oxnard is a hidden gem of a beach town. It has it all—beautiful weather, a pristine coastline, award-winning restaurants, luxurious accommodations, and even a taco trail! And the best part is, it feels under the radar. But I digress, just read on…

One of our first stops was this colorful mural!

1. The Zachari Dunes Resort

Zachari Dunes is a brand-new (it just opened in October of 2022!) and absolutely stunning beachfront resort, right in the heart of Oxnard. Not only is the property massive, the rooms are too! All of the rooms are suites (families, can we get an amen?), so even if you’re in the smallest room—you still have a living area and two bathrooms! There’s a beautiful pool and spa, multiple dining options, Watersport rentals, game room, daily activities, and SO MUCH MORE. It’s a destination in and of itself. We would have been more than happy never leaving the property, but alas, there’s so much to do in the town as well. Which leads us to our next reason….

Sally and Reese love a good hotel bed.

What a spot! Zachari Dunes is stunning!

Sunset with the boys.

The beach is Sally approved.

2. There’s a Taco Trail

Dozens and dozens of delicious and authentic taco spots… need we say more? We only had time to hit up a few, but they were LEGIT. If nothing else, we’ll be back to Oxnard just for the tacos. Two must-visit local faves: 

  • Carnitas El Rey: Not many people know that Bobby always goes straight for the carnitas at an authentic Mexican restaurant. Who knew that our first stop in Oxnard would be the taco restaurant that specializes in carnitas. WHAT?!? They offer different cuts of carnitas and you should try a variety. Quite possibly the best carnitas we’ve ever had. Be forewarned—the tacos are BIG. They load them up, so come hungry.

  • Yolanda's Mexican Cafe: We came for the marina views, but the tacos were the real star here. We tried the steak, chicken, and carnitas tacos and they were all really good. Especially when paired with a couple Cadillac margaritas. ;) For a full list of taco trail spots, click here!

First stop at Carnitas and it was the BEST!

Yolanda’s is delish!

3. There are Endless Activities

Whether you’re the kind of vacationer that just wants to beach, pool, repeat, or the kind that gets antsy after 10 minutes of “relaxing”—you’ll thrive in Oxnard. It has it all. Adventure seekers can choose between day tripping to the Channel Islands or a variety of ocean sports. Shoppers can indulge in picture-perfect outdoor shopping spots. Sightseers can stroll the harbor or ride bikes on the beach path. Your vacation can be as jam-packed or chill as you want it to be. 

Anacapa Island is stunning! Go!

4. It’s Perfect for Families

It’s wild how your priorities change once you’ve had kids. Pre-kids we’d spend hours researching the cocktail bars and nightlife of a destination—now we google “playgrounds with a view”, “kid friendly restaurants with happy hours”, and “outdoor activities for toddlers”. Oxnard REALLY delivered in this department. From the Pirate Playground next door to our hotel, to the Gondola Paradiso gondola ride that our whole family enjoyed, to the scenic Wheel Fun Rentals Surrey ride, to the waterfront restaurants that had icy cold cocktails for us and coloring books for the kiddos—we were ALL living our best lives. 

The Mullin Automotive Museum is a hit for all ages.

Pool time at Zachari Dunes!

Sunset Gondola ride with Gondola Paradiso!

5. The FOOD!

It’s safe to say we ate our way through Oxnard. Beyond the insane taco scene, the fresh seafood here is on another level. Just a few of our favorites:

Ox & Ocean (located at the Zachari Dunes) was so good, we ate there numerous times. Order the O & O Burger And the Oxtail Bao Buns. And don’t forget their signature Magic Sunset cocktail!

Waterside Restaurant and Wine Bar is another spot we frequented more than once. As the name implies, it’s right on the water and has an extensive menu with fresh seafood and local favorites. They also have a really great happy hour (get the Strawberry Mule!), and live music. We’d be there every weekend if we were locals!

Other standouts: Ragamuffin Coffee Roasters makes a mean iced oat vanilla latte, The Blend Superfood Bar has a Peanut Butter Berry Acai Bowl that I will never forget, and La Dolce Vita serves the most mouthwatering homemade Italian pastas in the most charming setting. 

Be sure to visit Ox & Ocean!

Moral of the story: Go to Oxnard. Bring your family. Heck, bring us! We’re ready to go back!

ANACAPA ISLAND - ONE OF CALIFORNIA’S BEST KEPT SECRETS

As born-and-raised So-Cal natives, we’re embarrassed to admit that we’d never heard of Anacapa Island until this trip. Yep - hadn’t even heard of it. We’ve grown up going to Catalina Island, but we had no idea there were other Channel Islands that you could visit and explore. 

While we were in Oxnard we left the kids with their grandparents and took a day trip to Anacapa Island—and it was a day we’ll never, ever forget. The wildlife, the rugged coastline, the views… It was unreal. Here’s all the details of what we did so you can do it too.

First things first—pack food and water. There’s no services (besides basic restrooms) on the island! And don’t forget sunscreen, there’s very limited shade.

The Island Packers ferry leaves at 9am out of Channel Islands Harbor in Oxnard. Get your tickets here in advance, and make sure you call ahead beforehand—if the water is too rough and choppy, the boat can’t leave. Thankfully we were there on a still, calm day, so we had no issues!

9 AM boarding in Channel Islands Harbor

It’s a little over an hour boat ride, complete with humpback whale spotting and fascinating narration about the wildlife in and around the island. (Don’t forget a jacket, it can be cold!) Pulling up to the island was like something out of a dream… The lighthouse peaking out from the fog, the water crashing against the rocks, the thousands of seagulls… it’s other-worldly.

The ferry will drop you off around 10:30-11ish and pick you up again around 3. Giving you plenty of time to hike and explore. 

We almost don’t want you to see these pictures because part of what made it so incredible was that we didn’t know what we were in for. It’s a small island, so if you’re up for it you can basically see it all in a few hours. Here are the sights:

  • Cathedral Cove - A beautiful cove that we will kayak around on our next visit

  • Lighthouse - Hike to the historic lighthouse that has been illuminating Anacapa since 1932

  • Pinniped Point - a stunning spot on the bluffs where you can spot wildlfe

  • Inspiration Point - Seeing it for the first time was jaw-dropping. We had no idea the views we were in for. It’s a 1.5 mile hike round trip and should probably be the highest priority on your visit. We set up a picnic there and took in the views for hours. 

Making friends with the seagulls.

Pinniped Point

Inspiration Point

Arch Rock and Bobby.

If you’re going to bring the kids, we’d say the minimum age is 5. Younger kids would be fine (especially if you wear them on a backpack), but use your best judgement. Our little Reese would probably have been fine being worn the whole time, but Jude would have been a challenge. Bobby would have ended up carrying him everywhere.

Overall, it was the most perfect day trip and getaway for us. Replacing Cocomelon songs and toddler tantrums with the soft melodies of Anacapa waves, wind, and wildlife was more life-giving than we could have imagined.

To summarize simply - Anacapa is a bucket-list worthy destination that is right here in Southern California. Go check it out! 

OXNARD - A BEACH TOWN FOR THE DOGS

Recently our life and our travels have revolved around our kids, but it’s time to give our “fur-st born” some love!!! We brought our Bernedoodle Sally with us on our family vacation in Oxnard, and it’s definitely a toss-up as to who enjoyed it more—us or Sally! It’s rare when a destination is a perfect trifecta: fun for adults, fun for kids, AND fun for pets. Oxnard FTW! 

Here’s our list of all things dog-friendly in Oxnard:

STAY

Zachari Dunes Resort: This picture-perfect beachfront resort is a dream for dogs. Sally was welcomed with open arms, and immediately made herself at home in our cozy room (and on the spacious patio). All of the rooms are suites, giving everyone in the family plenty of room to roam! 

The girls went straight for the bed at Zachari Dunes.

What a location!

DINE

Ox and Ocean: Located at the Zachari Dunes Resort, we loved how convenient and puppy-loving this restaurant was. Grab a table outside by the fire, some drinks and appetizers, and be prepared for your dog to get lots of pets from the resort guests and visitors. Sally made so many friends!

Waterside: We loved this spot so much, we went twice! Their spacious outdoor patio is not only doggy-approved, but it boasts amazing harbor views AND a killer happy hour. Get the fish and chips!

The Annex at The Collection: If you can’t decide what you’re in the mood for, head to the Annex at the Collection. The food hall has a tasty collection of options and also dog friendly patios. We went one morning for breakfast and enjoyed coffee from Ragamuffin Coffee and smoothies at The Blend Superfood Bar. Sally was upset we didn’t grab her a corndog from Two Hands Corn Dogs… next time! 

Honey Cup Coffeehouse & Creamery: Pop by here for a coffee or a sweet treat, and bring your furry friend along! Once again Sally made several friends while we were at Honey Cup, AND she was treated to her favorite “human” snack—a croissant. ;)

Coffee and a harbor walk is our favorite way to start the morning!

PLAY

Beach: We spent the majority of our time in Oxnard on the beach with Sally. (Dogs are allowed anytime as long as they're on a leash!) From the abundance of sticks to the cool, salty water and soft, warm sand... Sally was in puppy paradise. And honestly, we were too!

Harbor: Walking along the harbor, admiring the boats, and chit-chatting with Oxnard locals was one of our favorite family activities. Whether we were exploring the harbor first thing in the morning with our coffees in-hand, or taking an end-of-the-day stroll post-dinner, we met so many wonderful people on walks with their pups too. 10/10 recommend!

Parks: We didn’t venture too far from the beach, but had planned to let Sally roam free at one of the local dog parks. College Park dog park looks like it will be one of our first stops on our next visit, with plenty of room for Sally to run around off leash. 

Sally loved exploring Mandalay Beach

Our time in Oxnard wasn't long enough - there's still so much we've yet to explore, and so many more dog-friendly activities for us to take advantage of! We'll most definitely be back. (With Sally in tow, of course!)

3 Days of Legendary Adventures in North Dakota

Did you know that we are obsessed with South Dakota? We love it. We’ve visited 5 times in the past 5 years, we’ve covered nearly all of the state, and our son’s middle name is Dakota. But since his middle name isn’t South Dakota, we realized recently that we needed to go spend time in SoDak’s neighbor to the north. After a brief 3-day adventure exploring the rugged landscapes of western North Dakota, it’s safe to say that we love all the Dakotas. North, South, and Jude. 

Having only explored a small part of western North Dakota, we know we have plenty of trips back in our future. With endless outdoor adventures, tasty restaurants, and miles of national parks to explore, three days was hardly enough. Here is how we spent our time in the Roughrider State...

Day 1

We flew in late the night before, and were eager to arrive at the Roosevelt Inn in Watford City. It’s hard to miss, as there’s a 20-foot tall, 8 ton bust of Theodore Roosevelt sitting right in front of the hotel. We grabbed our luggage and tired baby, quickly checked in, devoured a couple of the hotel's famous “Badlands Brownies” (we’d come back just for those!), and headed to bed. 

Us with Roosevelt in front of the Roosevelt Inn!

If you’ve followed along with our adventures for a long time, you know that our time in a new place typically starts out the same way - searching for good coffee. Luckily, Watford City has some just around the corner from the Roosevelt Inn. Meg-a-Latte boasts high-quality coffee, a tasty breakfast menu, and a relaxed atmosphere - it’s the perfect spot for a cup of joe and a good book (instead we were chasing a toddler).  

After breakfast, we made the short trek over to the MHA Interpretive Center in New Town. This Interpretive Center uses living history programs to tell the story of the Great MHA Nation, which includes the Mandan, Hidatsa, and Arikara people. The space has a museum and a variety of exhibits that all interpret the history and culture of the tribes. We even made a stop at their on-site coffee shop! (Win/win!)

Since Jude was such a good boy as we took him around the museum, we decided our next stop would be focused on letting him get his wiggles out. We drove into the Little Missouri National Grasslands and let him loose on the Birnt Hills Trail. The weather was perfect for a hike! The views were stunning, and we even found a few spots for family photos. 

Hiking a couple miles with a toddler will definitely work up your appetite. We made our way to the Tobacco Gardens Resort & Marina and we were absolutely spoiled! The owner, Peggy, or “Auntie Peggy” as we called her, was SO sweet. She made us a delicious lunch and then took us out for a pontoon ride on Lake Sakakawea. We all loved it—especially Jude! Our time with Peggy solidified that we’ll be back… most likely to spend a few days on the lake right here! 

After a TON of adventure, we headed back to the hotel for a nap, grabbed a quick dinner at Burrito Bros., and went to bed! 

Jude and his smoothie at Meg-a-Latte

Happy boy

Heading in to the MHA Interpretive Center

MHA Interpretive Center had some tasty coffee

A view of the Interpretive Center from above!

Family photo time on the Birnt Hills Trail

Lunch at Tobacco Gardens Resort

The pontoon was a hit!

Jude LOVED his Auntie Peggy

Day 2

We love a good hotel breakfast, and we were thankful to find a solid spread each morning at the Roosevelt Inn. After fueling up, we headed to the Watford City Children’s Park (just down the street from the hotel) and let Jude run free. We know our lives are different now with this as a talking point… but this park was amazing! Parents, take note!

Jude took a quick nap after the park, and then we headed to Smiling Moose Rocky Mountain Deli for lunch. Nothing beats a good deli sandwich! (Do you see a pattern here yet? Eat, play, sleep, repeat…) For “play”, we drove to a different section of the Little Missouri National Grasslands and did a little more hiking. The fall colors are already coming in nicely and Alli was obsessed. 

Since we knew we’d need more than a day to explore Theodore Roosevelt National Park, we did a quick visit this afternoon. We were in for a real treat, as we saw a few bison right when we got into the park! Jude was in awe! 

Speaking of a real treat, Alli needed one. Even though justttt before dinner time, Alli (and the baby in her belly), needed ice cream. So, to Wild Cow Coffee & Cream we went. And it did not disappoint! 

For dinner, we enjoyed tasty steak dinners at Outlaws Bar & Grill. Bobby sampled some local whiskeys, Alli had a mocktail, and Jude had his iPad :) 

We spent too many hours here :)

Obsessed with the fall colors!

Alli sharing her ice cream with Jude. Wild Cow has the best ice cream in town!

Jude in awe. It’s not very often he stands still…

Day 3

Our final full day and we were wishing we had a few more! After breakfast at the hotel we headed back to the north entrance of Theodore Roosevelt National Park. We drove the 14-mile scenic drive, along which we saw deer and a few more bison. The drive meanders through the canyon and then climbs up to incredible views at the River Bend Overlook and Oxbox Overlook at the end of the road. The timing of it all worked perfectly, as we were in and out of the car for the drive out to Oxbox, and the Jude snoozed alllll the way back. We enjoyed the quiet, the fall colors, and the rugged landscapes.

For a final lunch in Watford City we were given a real treat. Slow Ride Tequila Cocina specializes in craft cocktails and southwestern fare, and we were not disappointed! The carnitas tacos, guac, and tortilla soup amounted to the best meal of the trip!  

Even though he only says about 6 words, Jude convinced us to take him to Watford City Children’s Park one last time. He zig zagged around the park for an hour before it was time for an afternoon nap for all of us. 

We were excited for dinner at Stonehome Brewing Co. A community-focused pub that creates high-quality craft beer, Bobby was wondering why we hadn’t been here on night one. The beer was delicious, the stone-baked pizza was cooked to perfection (get the Marco Polo), and Bobby still regrets not getting a stromboli. We’ll be back!

The view from Oxbox Overlook

More family photos :)

Between the daily adventures and mouthwatering meals, we had an amazing trip in North Dakota. It definitely lived up to the Dakota hype that we’ve created, and we’re retroactively deciding that Jude’s middle name encompasses both north and south “Dakota”. If you’re contemplating a trip to the Dakotas, budget more time than you expect, and prepare to be amazed!

We ate our fair share of these brownies. So good!

Jude on the Birnt Hills Trail!

Another one with Jude and Auntie Peggy!

Another one with Jude and Auntie Peggy!