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Family Friendly Fun in Santa Ana - Kid AND Parent Approved

Summers have shifted in the Traveling Newlyweds’ household. Five years ago, summers involved cross-country road trips, African safaris, and quick weekenders in Cabo. Fast forward to 2023 and summers are defined by beach days, exploring new parks, and trips to the local mountains. We’ve embraced this new phase with our kids but still have the desire for new adventures. With two kids under three, we stay pretty close to home more often and are always looking for new spots to eat or to get our kids’ wiggles out. We’re excited to share that we’ve been exploring Santa Ana for the past few weeks and have fallen in love. Not only is it close to home (Costa Mesa), but we’ve found experiences that all of us have enjoyed. 

Here’s a quick little rundown of where we’ve been eating and playing in Santa Ana this summer:

EAT

  • Hopper & Burr: This is one of our favorite coffee shops, period. We’ve been coming here for years and are obsessed with the gourmet coffee, the mouth-watering avocado toast, and the always friendly baristas. If you haven’t been to Hopper & Burr, drive over to Santa Ana this weekend and thank us after. 

  • Brunch at Santa Ana Brunch Club: If we had to pick one standout of our past few weeks in Santa Ana, it’s brunch. To be fair, it’s the only place we hadn’t been and we didn’t know what to expect. We arrived right when they opened at 9 AM (because the kids had been up for hours), and immediately were greeted by the kindest employees and Chef Domenico. They made recommendations for breakfast and we didn’t hold back. Bobby had chicken and waffles, Alli ate Avocado & Egg toast, the kids had sourdough pancakes, and we all shared the milk bread donut bites. Chef Domenico told us all about the restaurant and his journey to getting there and we can’t wait to go back!

  • Benchmark: A perfect location for al-fresco, Benchmark boasts a welcoming vibe that feels welcoming for families but is also the perfect date night spot. Their menu is “refined yet approachable” and encourages shared plates to enhance the whole table’s culinary experience. The kids shared chicken tenders while we enjoyed the Benchmark burger and avocado and corn salad. DELISH!

  • 4th Street Market: The thing about the 4th Street Market is that you could actually consider this “play” too. The 4th Street Market is a modern food hall with a variety of food stalls, so everyone can get what they like. There is a variety of cuisine (and libations) that ensures that you’ll be making multiple trips. What’s more, they have a patio area with ping-pong tables and games that our kids were obsessed with. We indulged in the smash burgers at The Golden Eatery and craft cocktails from Recess by Playground. The kids had grilled cheese, juice, and loved dancing on the stage. 

The CUTEST kid’s meals!

There may have been some fighting over the donut bites :)

Benchmark is a hit!

PLAY

A Day at the Santa Ana Zoo: If you’re a Southern California native, your idea of a zoo is probably shaped by the San Diego zoo. Ours was! So while the SD zoo is magical, it feels like a big production to commit to a day at the zoo. But the Santa Ana Zoo offers a different experience. While you can definitely spend a whole day here, you can also see so much in just a couple of hours. It is packed full of animals, activity, and fun, but it’s a much smaller space than the San Diego Zoo. This is a huge advantage when you’re wrangling kids. Our kids are obsessed with the monkeys, butterflies and camels. With over 80 species of animals, we definitely need to go back to see it all! 

Aside from the animals, we rode a ferris wheel, a train, and played on the playground. And a visit to the Santa Ana Zoo is not complete without a trip to Bean Sprouts for lunch. Their award-winning kids menu is honestly the most fun looking food our kids have ever seen. From the “Spaceadilla” (quesadilla shaped like a rocket ship) to the “Flutter Bite” (turkey sandwich shaped like a butterfly), all of their kids entrees are built with creative flair and are super healthy! 

The Discovery Cube: The perfect August-September activity, the Discovery Cube is a wonderful place to beat the SoCal heat. Aside from the air conditioning, the Discovery Cube is an amazing destination focused on inspiring and educating kids through science programs and exhibits. With permanent exhibits and seasonal featured events, there are always fun, new experiences. 

Here are some of our kids’ favorite exhibits:

  • Discovery Market - Grab a shopping cart and have a real life grocery store experience. 

  • Hurricane Simulator - Experience winds over 70 miles an hour. Hold on to your hat! 

  • The Raceway - Build a car, find a track, and race for the best time. 

The two featured events were perfect for our kids. Both are going to be at the Discovery Cube until September 4th:

  • OC Ocean Encounter - Explore the different parts of the ocean in this immersive wonderland. Learn about ocean life, coral reefs, conservation efforts, and so much more. Reese loved that she found a slide!

  • Paw Patrol: Adventure Play - Jude could have stayed here all day. Come alongside your favorite pups and explore the different parts of Adventure Bay. This place is a kids dream! 

Good news for the kids… the Discovery Cube has a Bean Sprouts cafe as well. So you can get your Under the Sea-za pizza here too :) 

Train ride around the zoo was a hit!

Jude loved building cars and racing them!

Reese could have stayed here all day!

From Brunch to the 4th Street Market to the Zoo, we’ve been so thankful to learn what is right in our backyard in Santa Ana. We’re eager to explore more of the places we’ve been, but also know that there’s so much more to discover. We’ll be sure to report back as we uncover more family friendly adventures in Santa Ana

FIVE REASONS YOU SHOULD VACATION IN OXNARD 

We just came back from a four-day staycation in Oxnard, CA that absolutely blew us away. “Oxnard, really? Why Oxnard? What’s there?” 

We’re so glad you asked.

Conveniently located just five minutes South of Ventura, Oxnard is a hidden gem of a beach town. It has it all—beautiful weather, a pristine coastline, award-winning restaurants, luxurious accommodations, and even a taco trail! And the best part is, it feels under the radar. But I digress, just read on…

One of our first stops was this colorful mural!

1. The Zachari Dunes Resort

Zachari Dunes is a brand-new (it just opened in October of 2022!) and absolutely stunning beachfront resort, right in the heart of Oxnard. Not only is the property massive, the rooms are too! All of the rooms are suites (families, can we get an amen?), so even if you’re in the smallest room—you still have a living area and two bathrooms! There’s a beautiful pool and spa, multiple dining options, Watersport rentals, game room, daily activities, and SO MUCH MORE. It’s a destination in and of itself. We would have been more than happy never leaving the property, but alas, there’s so much to do in the town as well. Which leads us to our next reason….

Sally and Reese love a good hotel bed.

What a spot! Zachari Dunes is stunning!

Sunset with the boys.

The beach is Sally approved.

2. There’s a Taco Trail

Dozens and dozens of delicious and authentic taco spots… need we say more? We only had time to hit up a few, but they were LEGIT. If nothing else, we’ll be back to Oxnard just for the tacos. Two must-visit local faves: 

  • Carnitas El Rey: Not many people know that Bobby always goes straight for the carnitas at an authentic Mexican restaurant. Who knew that our first stop in Oxnard would be the taco restaurant that specializes in carnitas. WHAT?!? They offer different cuts of carnitas and you should try a variety. Quite possibly the best carnitas we’ve ever had. Be forewarned—the tacos are BIG. They load them up, so come hungry.

  • Yolanda's Mexican Cafe: We came for the marina views, but the tacos were the real star here. We tried the steak, chicken, and carnitas tacos and they were all really good. Especially when paired with a couple Cadillac margaritas. ;) For a full list of taco trail spots, click here!

First stop at Carnitas and it was the BEST!

Yolanda’s is delish!

3. There are Endless Activities

Whether you’re the kind of vacationer that just wants to beach, pool, repeat, or the kind that gets antsy after 10 minutes of “relaxing”—you’ll thrive in Oxnard. It has it all. Adventure seekers can choose between day tripping to the Channel Islands or a variety of ocean sports. Shoppers can indulge in picture-perfect outdoor shopping spots. Sightseers can stroll the harbor or ride bikes on the beach path. Your vacation can be as jam-packed or chill as you want it to be. 

Anacapa Island is stunning! Go!

4. It’s Perfect for Families

It’s wild how your priorities change once you’ve had kids. Pre-kids we’d spend hours researching the cocktail bars and nightlife of a destination—now we google “playgrounds with a view”, “kid friendly restaurants with happy hours”, and “outdoor activities for toddlers”. Oxnard REALLY delivered in this department. From the Pirate Playground next door to our hotel, to the Gondola Paradiso gondola ride that our whole family enjoyed, to the scenic Wheel Fun Rentals Surrey ride, to the waterfront restaurants that had icy cold cocktails for us and coloring books for the kiddos—we were ALL living our best lives. 

The Mullin Automotive Museum is a hit for all ages.

Pool time at Zachari Dunes!

Sunset Gondola ride with Gondola Paradiso!

5. The FOOD!

It’s safe to say we ate our way through Oxnard. Beyond the insane taco scene, the fresh seafood here is on another level. Just a few of our favorites:

Ox & Ocean (located at the Zachari Dunes) was so good, we ate there numerous times. Order the O & O Burger And the Oxtail Bao Buns. And don’t forget their signature Magic Sunset cocktail!

Waterside Restaurant and Wine Bar is another spot we frequented more than once. As the name implies, it’s right on the water and has an extensive menu with fresh seafood and local favorites. They also have a really great happy hour (get the Strawberry Mule!), and live music. We’d be there every weekend if we were locals!

Other standouts: Ragamuffin Coffee Roasters makes a mean iced oat vanilla latte, The Blend Superfood Bar has a Peanut Butter Berry Acai Bowl that I will never forget, and La Dolce Vita serves the most mouthwatering homemade Italian pastas in the most charming setting. 

Be sure to visit Ox & Ocean!

Moral of the story: Go to Oxnard. Bring your family. Heck, bring us! We’re ready to go back!

ANACAPA ISLAND - ONE OF CALIFORNIA’S BEST KEPT SECRETS

As born-and-raised So-Cal natives, we’re embarrassed to admit that we’d never heard of Anacapa Island until this trip. Yep - hadn’t even heard of it. We’ve grown up going to Catalina Island, but we had no idea there were other Channel Islands that you could visit and explore. 

While we were in Oxnard we left the kids with their grandparents and took a day trip to Anacapa Island—and it was a day we’ll never, ever forget. The wildlife, the rugged coastline, the views… It was unreal. Here’s all the details of what we did so you can do it too.

First things first—pack food and water. There’s no services (besides basic restrooms) on the island! And don’t forget sunscreen, there’s very limited shade.

The Island Packers ferry leaves at 9am out of Channel Islands Harbor in Oxnard. Get your tickets here in advance, and make sure you call ahead beforehand—if the water is too rough and choppy, the boat can’t leave. Thankfully we were there on a still, calm day, so we had no issues!

9 AM boarding in Channel Islands Harbor

It’s a little over an hour boat ride, complete with humpback whale spotting and fascinating narration about the wildlife in and around the island. (Don’t forget a jacket, it can be cold!) Pulling up to the island was like something out of a dream… The lighthouse peaking out from the fog, the water crashing against the rocks, the thousands of seagulls… it’s other-worldly.

The ferry will drop you off around 10:30-11ish and pick you up again around 3. Giving you plenty of time to hike and explore. 

We almost don’t want you to see these pictures because part of what made it so incredible was that we didn’t know what we were in for. It’s a small island, so if you’re up for it you can basically see it all in a few hours. Here are the sights:

  • Cathedral Cove - A beautiful cove that we will kayak around on our next visit

  • Lighthouse - Hike to the historic lighthouse that has been illuminating Anacapa since 1932

  • Pinniped Point - a stunning spot on the bluffs where you can spot wildlfe

  • Inspiration Point - Seeing it for the first time was jaw-dropping. We had no idea the views we were in for. It’s a 1.5 mile hike round trip and should probably be the highest priority on your visit. We set up a picnic there and took in the views for hours. 

Making friends with the seagulls.

Pinniped Point

Inspiration Point

Arch Rock and Bobby.

If you’re going to bring the kids, we’d say the minimum age is 5. Younger kids would be fine (especially if you wear them on a backpack), but use your best judgement. Our little Reese would probably have been fine being worn the whole time, but Jude would have been a challenge. Bobby would have ended up carrying him everywhere.

Overall, it was the most perfect day trip and getaway for us. Replacing Cocomelon songs and toddler tantrums with the soft melodies of Anacapa waves, wind, and wildlife was more life-giving than we could have imagined.

To summarize simply - Anacapa is a bucket-list worthy destination that is right here in Southern California. Go check it out! 

OXNARD - A BEACH TOWN FOR THE DOGS

Recently our life and our travels have revolved around our kids, but it’s time to give our “fur-st born” some love!!! We brought our Bernedoodle Sally with us on our family vacation in Oxnard, and it’s definitely a toss-up as to who enjoyed it more—us or Sally! It’s rare when a destination is a perfect trifecta: fun for adults, fun for kids, AND fun for pets. Oxnard FTW! 

Here’s our list of all things dog-friendly in Oxnard:

STAY

Zachari Dunes Resort: This picture-perfect beachfront resort is a dream for dogs. Sally was welcomed with open arms, and immediately made herself at home in our cozy room (and on the spacious patio). All of the rooms are suites, giving everyone in the family plenty of room to roam! 

The girls went straight for the bed at Zachari Dunes.

What a location!

DINE

Ox and Ocean: Located at the Zachari Dunes Resort, we loved how convenient and puppy-loving this restaurant was. Grab a table outside by the fire, some drinks and appetizers, and be prepared for your dog to get lots of pets from the resort guests and visitors. Sally made so many friends!

Waterside: We loved this spot so much, we went twice! Their spacious outdoor patio is not only doggy-approved, but it boasts amazing harbor views AND a killer happy hour. Get the fish and chips!

The Annex at The Collection: If you can’t decide what you’re in the mood for, head to the Annex at the Collection. The food hall has a tasty collection of options and also dog friendly patios. We went one morning for breakfast and enjoyed coffee from Ragamuffin Coffee and smoothies at The Blend Superfood Bar. Sally was upset we didn’t grab her a corndog from Two Hands Corn Dogs… next time! 

Honey Cup Coffeehouse & Creamery: Pop by here for a coffee or a sweet treat, and bring your furry friend along! Once again Sally made several friends while we were at Honey Cup, AND she was treated to her favorite “human” snack—a croissant. ;)

Coffee and a harbor walk is our favorite way to start the morning!

PLAY

Beach: We spent the majority of our time in Oxnard on the beach with Sally. (Dogs are allowed anytime as long as they're on a leash!) From the abundance of sticks to the cool, salty water and soft, warm sand... Sally was in puppy paradise. And honestly, we were too!

Harbor: Walking along the harbor, admiring the boats, and chit-chatting with Oxnard locals was one of our favorite family activities. Whether we were exploring the harbor first thing in the morning with our coffees in-hand, or taking an end-of-the-day stroll post-dinner, we met so many wonderful people on walks with their pups too. 10/10 recommend!

Parks: We didn’t venture too far from the beach, but had planned to let Sally roam free at one of the local dog parks. College Park dog park looks like it will be one of our first stops on our next visit, with plenty of room for Sally to run around off leash. 

Sally loved exploring Mandalay Beach

Our time in Oxnard wasn't long enough - there's still so much we've yet to explore, and so many more dog-friendly activities for us to take advantage of! We'll most definitely be back. (With Sally in tow, of course!)

48 Hours in Santa Monica for the Whole Family

These past few months have been wild.

We’ve transitioned from baby parents to toddler parents. Jude is walking, talking (sort of), and has endless amounts of energy. It’s one of the best seasons of being a parent so far, but quite possibly the most exhausting. He is, and thus we are, always on the go. Since Jude easily gets bored of his toys and being inside, we were recently craving a change of scenery. Our ideal spot is an easy drive, has a nice air-conditioned hotel (we don’t have that at home), good food options, and plenty to do within walking distance of where we stay. At just over an hour from home, Santa Monica checks all the boxes! So we packed up and got on our way. 

For those of you unfamiliar with the area, Santa Monica is a coastal city just west of downtown Los Angeles. It boasts 4 miles of beaches and you’ll discover it’s the perfect combination of a vibrant urban scene and a laid back coastal beach town. With amazing hotels, restaurants, and shopping, it’s the perfect place for a weekend getaway with the whole family (or just mom & dad!)

Opting for luxury in a prime location, we stayed at the Fairmont Miramar Hotel & Bungalows. It’s directly across the street from the beach, so every room has a view. We had a Premier Ocean View Room on the top floor, which looked down on the pool and out over the coastline. We started and ended most of our days on the balcony, either with coffee or a cocktail in hand. (Sometimes both!) The sunsets specifically were INCREDIBLE! We felt like we were in Hawaii! 

One of our favorite reasons to visit Santa Monica is that we can park our car and not get back in until we’re heading home. Everything is so walkable!. And there is so much good food that we appreciate being able to walk off some of the calories. 

For breakfast, our favorite spots were Jinky’s Cafe and Huckleberry Bakery. Jinky’s is a small neighborhood cafe where we’d recommend the Huevos Rancheros and/or the pancakes. Huckleberry has the most insane fresh pastries, and Bobby was obsessed with the breakfast sandwich.

For lunch on the sand (literally), Back on the Bay Beach Cafe is a MUST. You can’t beat the ocean-front location, and the food is all really good. Alli’s still raving about their tuna sandwich! Another must-visit spot is The Albright on the Santa Monica Pier, where they serve up some drool-worthy seafood, sandwiches, and more! We shared the fish tacos, oysters, and a quesadilla (for Jude) and it was all amazing! 

For a hearty, authentic (and surprisingly affordable) Italian dinner, look no further than Fritto Misto! There’s a reason this place has become a Santa Monica staple—and with one bite of their homemade pasta with pink sauce you’ll understand why! We’d drive back to Santa Monica just for that! Art’s Table is also a local favorite, with to-die-for specialties like their Cuban Style Charred Corn (don’t ask, just trust) and their perfectly chopped Art’s Chopped Salad. I’ve since tried to perfect it and I can’t even come close!

Our last night in Santa Monica was spent at Fig Santa Monica, located inside the Fairmont. It was heavenly. The stunning ambiance, specialty cocktails, fresh halibut, cacio e pepe pasta… Everything was perfect, full of flavor, and beautifully presented. It was one of those meals where we didn’t want it to end. (But then our toddler started screaming.) Next time we’re bringing a babysitter.

While we loved our quick visit to Santa Monica, we definitely could have stayed another day or two. There is SO MUCH TO DO! We’d recommend going a little slower than we did (toddler life = always moving), but doing any (and all!) of the following activities:

  • Third Street Promenade: World-class shopping, street performers, and great food. What more do you need? Jude was on overload with so many things to look at. 

  • Pacific Park on the Santa Monica Pier: It doesn’t matter if you’re a solo adult or traveling with a toddler, Pacific Park has something for you. Jude loved the Kid’s Cove area where there are rides for little ones, and we all enjoyed the ferris wheel together!

  • The Beach: this is a no-brainer. Miles of sand are a short walk from any of the Santa Monica hotels. Why wouldn’t you spend your afternoon there. 

  • Annenberg Community Beach House and Splash Pad: Speaking of the beach… if you have a small child (like us) who isn’t ready for the ocean, the Annenberg Community Beach House is right on the sand and has a giant splash pads for kids to play in. Jude had so much fun for a few minutes, but then he got a little intimidated by the water (he’s 1- we’ll try again at 2). 

  • Pool at the Fairmont: For us, pool time is solo time. Jude naps and one of us stays in the room, and the other has poolside cocktails. Whether you’re alone, with your person, or have the whole family, this place is paradise. 

  • Heal the Bay Aquarium: Did you know there is an aquarium under the Santa Monica pier?! We didn’t! Mind blown! You can get up close with over 100 species of local marine life, and you’ll learn so much! The staff is so knowledgeable, and they have a variety of touch tanks where you can touch many of the sea creatures. A must do! 

  • Farmer’s Market: Since we were there on a Saturday, we were able to enjoy Santa Monica’s Farmer’s Market. With all kinds of fresh produce, flowers, nuts, jams, and more, it’s one of our favorite ways to spend a Saturday morning. The market typically runs Wednesday and Saturday, but check the website for updates. 

As the Traveling Newlyweds, it’s not uncommon for us to hop in the car and drive 7,000 miles to the most random parts of the country. This visit to Santa Monica reminded us that there are so many epic destinations right in our backyard, and that we have to take advantage of them more. For SoCal residents, Santa Monica is easy to get to and has the setting to instantly put you in vacation mode. So if you’re in need of a tan, a delicious meal, or need to be pampered at a hotel like the Fairmont, you should definitely indulge yourself. And thank us later.